Understanding Custody Decisions in Oklahoma
How does a judge decide custody in Oklahoma? Hi, my name is Aaron Grubb. I’m a Tahlequah family law attorney at Wirth Law Office. In this video, we’re going to talk about how a judge determines custody arrangements in Oklahoma.
The primary standard a judge uses is “the best interest of the child.” That’s the guiding principle behind all custody decisions.
Key Factors in Custody Decisions
To support your position, you can present various types of evidence—such as:
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- Your ability to provide financial stability and resources for the child.
- The emotional environment and support system in your household.
- A consistent routine or positive parenting style you follow.
For example, you might explain that your home offers emotional support and structure, while the other parent enforces harsher or more inconsistent discipline. These are relevant factors the court may consider.
However, when presenting your case, it’s important to focus on what you do for your child. Let your attorney handle the critique of the other parent. Avoid getting personally involved in direct attacks or a mud-slinging match. Judges appreciate parents who focus on the child’s well-being rather than engaging in conflict with the other party.
Focus on Your Strengths as a Parent
So remember:
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- You: Emphasize your strengths as a parent.
- Your attorney: Address weaknesses or concerns about the other parent.
If you have any questions about your own custody case or how to present your best case to the court, please contact us at Wirth Law Office. We’re here to help.
Get Your Initial Strategy Session Scheduled!
Take the first step towards securing the best outcome for your child. Call Tahlequah child custody attorney Aaron Grubb today at (918) 458-2677 to schedule your low-cost initial strategy session.
